i am lucky enough to have a great therapist for my son. At least I think he's good. He plays board games with him, and sometimes they do arts and crafts together. I think this is typical for kids who are in therapy. There does not seem to have been much talking done yet, but apparently my son needs to feel safe in order to begin communicating. (Unfortunately, today my husband told him that he had better not tell his therapist anything bad about him- talk about having a safe place!)
Its fine with me, especially since my insurance is paying for the sessions- my husband is not paying child support-yet. Hopefully one day he will wake up and realize that he has a bunch of kids who need food and clothing. He is making an excellent salary, so money is not an issue- its his warped way of thinking that is the issue here.
The day after I mentioned that I wanted a divorce, all my credit cards were canceled, except of course the one which was in my name only. He stopped paying the bills that were not to his gain- such as my cell phone, and internet service.
He basically left us with no money.
And so I did the obvious, I went to his boss, a frum (Rabbi) man, who said that he would love to help me, but he was so sorry that he couldn't. Next I went to his family- also prominent Rabbonim in the community- and they too said- we would love to help but we cant get involved.
I have lots more to say on this matter, but I will leave it for another time. Needless to say, my children and I are existing on food stamps alone, and we are happy with less food and a peaceful home.
Its fine with me, especially since my insurance is paying for the sessions- my husband is not paying child support-yet. Hopefully one day he will wake up and realize that he has a bunch of kids who need food and clothing. He is making an excellent salary, so money is not an issue- its his warped way of thinking that is the issue here.
The day after I mentioned that I wanted a divorce, all my credit cards were canceled, except of course the one which was in my name only. He stopped paying the bills that were not to his gain- such as my cell phone, and internet service.
He basically left us with no money.
And so I did the obvious, I went to his boss, a frum (Rabbi) man, who said that he would love to help me, but he was so sorry that he couldn't. Next I went to his family- also prominent Rabbonim in the community- and they too said- we would love to help but we cant get involved.
I have lots more to say on this matter, but I will leave it for another time. Needless to say, my children and I are existing on food stamps alone, and we are happy with less food and a peaceful home.
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