Its fine with me, especially since my insurance is paying for the sessions- my husband is not paying child support-yet. Hopefully one day he will wake up and realize that he has a bunch of kids who need food and clothing. He is making an excellent salary, so money is not an issue- its his warped way of thinking that is the issue here.
The day after I mentioned that I wanted a divorce, all my credit cards were canceled, except of course the one which was in my name only. He stopped paying the bills that were not to his gain- such as my cell phone, and internet service.
He basically left us with no money.
And so I did the obvious, I went to his boss, a frum (Rabbi) man, who said that he would love to help me, but he was so sorry that he couldn't. Next I went to his family- also prominent Rabbonim in the community- and they too said- we would love to help but we cant get involved.
I have lots more to say on this matter, but I will leave it for another time. Needless to say, my children and I are existing on food stamps alone, and we are happy with less food and a peaceful home.